Proverbs 20:15-30
The book of Proverbs has been compared to a guideline, which "in the maze of this world where a false step can lead to such bitter results, shows us the path of prudence and life" (JND). In the midst of the seeming disorder in these sentences, every one can find the practical instructions which he needs to avoid these snares (v. 25). Lying, tale-bearing, wrong words to parents, greed, a spirit of revenge, fraud, broken promises – we should avoid the company of certain people in order to be kept from these dangers. V. 19 advises, "Meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips". In going about with such a person we can only reap slander and libel, nothing for our edification. Our own confidences to him will be spread abroad everywhere. In contrast the lips of knowledge are like a precious jewel, highlighting the facets of the truths given to us (v. 15; Ephesians 4:29). So let us seek out the company of those who can pass on to us the teachings of wisdom (cf. Proverbs 8:11; Proverbs 8:19); wisdom has more value than gold which perishes or than many rubies. "The glory of young men is their strength" (v. 29): a strength which has its source in the Lord and which makes them able to overcome the wicked one (Ephesians 6:10; 1 John 2:13-14).