Kolose 3:21

Bahasa Indonesia Sehari-hari

Hai bapa-bapa, janganlah sakiti hati anakmu, supaya jangan tawar hatinya.

Parallel Translations

Alkitab Terjemahan Baru
Hai bapa-bapa, janganlah sakiti hati anakmu, supaya jangan tawar hatinya.

Alkitab Terjemahan Lama
Hai segala bapa, janganlah kamu menyakiti hati anak-anakmu, supaya jangan tawar hatinya.

Contextual Overview

¹⁸ Wiues, submit your selues vnto your owne husbandes, as it is comely in the Lorde. ¹⁹ Husbandes, loue your wyues, and be not bitter agaynst them: ²⁰ Chyldren, obey your fathers and mothers in all thynges, for that is well pleasyng vnto the Lorde. ²¹ Fathers, prouoke not your chyldren [to anger], lest they be discouraged. ²² Seruauntes, obey in all thynges to your bodyly maisters: not with eye seruice, as men pleasers, but in singlenesse of heart, fearyng God. ²³ And whatsoeuer ye do, do it heartilie, as to the Lorde, and not vnto men: ²⁴ Knowyng, that of the Lorde ye shall receaue the rewarde of inheritaunce, for ye serue the Lorde Christe: ²⁵ But he that doth wrong, shall receaue for the wrong he hath done: And there is no respect of persons.

Bible Verse Review
  from Treasury of Scripure Knowledge

Psalms 103:13, Proverbs 3:12, Proverbs 4:1-4, Ephesians 6:4, 1 Thessalonians 2:11, Hebrews 12:5-11

Reciprocal: Colossians 3:19 - bitter

Cross-References

Genesis 3:2
And the woman sayde vnto the serpent: We eate of ye fruite of the trees of the garden.

Genesis 3:3
But as for the fruite of the tree which is in the myddes of the garden, God hath sayde, ye shall not eate of it, neither shal ye touche of it, lest peraduenture ye dye.

Genesis 3:7
Then the eyes of them both were opened, and they knewe that they were naked, and they sowed fygge leaues together, & made them selues apernes.

Isaiah 61:10
And therefore I am ioyfull in the Lorde, and my soule reioyceth in God: For he hath put vpon me the garment of saluation, and couered me with the mantle of righteousnesse: He shal decke me lyke a bridegrome, and as a bride that hath her apparell vpon her.

Romans 3:22
The ryghteousnes of God [commeth] by the fayth of Iesus Christe, vnto all and vpon all them that beleue. There is no difference:

2 Corinthians 5:21
For he hath made him to be sinne for vs, whiche knewe no sinne, that we shoulde be made the ryghteousnesse of God in hym.

Gill's Notes on the Bible

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger,....

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lest they be discouraged; or disheartened and dispirited; their spirits be broke through grief and trouble, and they become indolent, sluggish, and unfit for business; or, despairing of having any share in the affections of their parents, disregard their commands, instructions, and corrections, and grow obdurate, stubborn, and rebellious.

Barnes' Notes on the Bible

Fathers, provoke not ... - Notes, Ephesians 6:4.

Lest they be discouraged - Lest, by your continually finding fault with them, they should lose all courage, and despair of ever pleasing you. There is much sound sense and practical wisdom in this observation of the apostle. Children should not be flattered, but they should be encouraged. They should not be so praised as to make them vain and proud, but they should be commended when they do well. The desire of praise should not be the principle from which they should be taught to act, but they should feel that the approbation of parents is a desirable thing, and when they act so as to deserve that approbation, no injury is done them by their understanding it. He who always finds fault with a child; who is never satisfied with what he does; who scolds and frets and complains, let him do as he will, breaks his spirit, and soon destroys in the delicate texture of his soul all desire of doing well. The child in despair soon gives over every effort to please. He becomes sullen, morose, stupid, and indifferent to all the motives that can be presented to him, and becomes to a great extent indifferent as to what he does - since all that he does meets with the same reception from the parent.

Clarke's Notes on the Bible

Verse 21. Fathers, provoke not — Ephesians 6:4; Ephesians 6:4.